It's only through trials and adversity that we develop perserverance, strength, and determination. If you've ever wondered "why me?", it is because you need to work on developing characteristics like those. Examine your situation with an open mind and figure out what life is trying to say to you. Each day that you are alive is full of your own compliment of *teachable moments* for you to capitalize on and make the best of.
End of thought, end of post. Night-night.